Sunday, February 15, 2009

Shhh!

"z, if you've been working hard on something and wish for the best of it, DONT tell anyone except to those whom youve known well enough, for you might have no idea of what's on their mind, let alone the prays that they say behind you."

said a friend of mine. At first, I thought that she was saying some arabic proverbs, coz she was an Arab resident and have always had a nice way to convey her thoughts, before i realized that she was as serious as... she was.

"Ive always been naive to everyone and thought that sharing good news was a noble thing to do. Then, I realized that everytime i was about to achieve something that ive been working on real hard, there would always be another thing that came up along the way."

Then there were stories that we shared, during that night. We have a wonderful chat, and it didnt take me too long to realize that i, myself, used to be surrounded by these sweet-talkers who had never meant what they said and secretly prayed for the opposite things to happen.

"Tell only those you trust, that would say nice words with or without you being there, and would willingly pray for nice things."

And what a wise and sincere advice she was giving me!

And Ive learned that despite my ability to simply despise anyone who says cruel things to me, i would also need to add that it breaks my heart the most, when the words come from the persons you love or trust the most.



If you don't have anything nice to say, then, say nothing... at all.
Shhhh!

4 Whisperers:

Ajzie said...

"if you've been working hard on something and are wishing for the best of it, DO NOT tell anyone except those whom youve known well, for you might not know what's in their heart, and what kind of pray that they say behind you."

Itu la Kak Azi .. coz pada kak azi tak semua org berhati mulia. Dan tidak semua orang suka or sayang pada kita. Ada juga yg iri dan sebagai nya. Kita tidak boleh membaca hati semua orang tetapi kita boleh mengawal diri kita dan berdoa kepada NYA. Semuga urusan Lz and suami terchenta dipermudah kan.. Semuga semuanya berjalan dengan lancar. Amin

Dayang Fazlyn Chelly said...

Huhu... I'll keep everitin as secret...

Idayu said...

betul, rmbut sma hitam...hati lain2 kn??

aisyah demam ker?sian...

lady zaini said...

kak azie,
susah kan nk cari org yg terima kita seadanya..tapi alhamdulillah, walaupun kawan saya tak ramai, kebanyakannya terima saya seadanya..

jazlyn,
hi jazlyn,welkem welkem. tapi jgn keep everything secret pulak, nnti tuh dah burden diri sendiri pulak..hehe :D
a friend of jamil kan?

ayu,
susah nk judge dari luaran, kan? tp alhamdulillah, sbb sy cuma org biasa yg takder kelebihan apa2,so most of my friends are true la kut, Insya-Allah. and tq for asking about that little girl. Alhamdulillah. almost 5hari jugak muntah2 tp sekarang nih aisyah macam dh sihat.

 

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